SHOULD WIVES WORK/EARN MONEY?
Should wives work?
Hmmmmmm, this world is made
up of only men and women, both must interact.
At the Garden of Eden,
during the days of Adam and Eve, we learned that Adam went out probably to
work, to look for food for Eve to eat while Eve was at home, maybe doing some
house chores, cooking, washing, cleaning and all, when the snake came to
deceive Eve.
To me that simply means Adam went to work while Eve stayed back at
home. Eve was supposedly a full time housewife. I think that was what it should
be, or will I say that was what God made it to be.
But who full time housewife
epp? The man or the woman?
I know of a man that refused
his wife doing anything at all, he said that men will start admiring and going
after his wife, that his wife will start disrespecting him if she starts making
money, how his kids will be untrained and all that. I looked at the man and
said, anyways, mentality differs. He is a rich man anyways, and can comfortably
take care of his family with or without his wife’s little money.
Yes, a woman should be doing
something, to earn money no matter how little, at least to help the man out
with some household expenses, but that should not be the sole reason why women
should work.
To me working as a wife
reduces the chances and tendencies of fights and quarrels in a home.
A working wife has little or
no time to nag. Unlike a full-time housewife, she has all the time in the world
to look for trouble. The working wife is busy calculating her money, checking
her expenses, thinking of what to wear to work for the week, thinking how to
change her wardrobe to still look good at work.
I remember when I was not
working, hmmm, I intentionally look for hubbys trouble, and I was always
nagging, looking for faults and what to say here and there.
But with a job now, things
are different. By the time I return from work, I’m already tired and will just
be interested in making dinner, doing home work, eating and sleeping. Some
days, I have to form sleeping just to have that night to myself 😄😄😄.
My point is;
That a wife works is not
just to bring in money to the home, but to also meaningfully engage her brain,
and reduce the tendencies of fights and quarrels.
Not just that, when a woman
has her personal money, she feels happy unlike when she has to beg her husband
for every dime.
1.
For personal fulfillment;
every human being has a dream and wishes to fulfill that dream. It is no crime
for a woman to have her own money, provide for the family, fund projects, build
houses etc. a woman feels more confident when she earns her own money and has
her personal fulfillment. I will get there too.
2.
Two heads are
better than one; yes, a man is great and can provide very well for the family,
but with his wife he is even greater. More money does not and cannot hurt.
3.
For stability;
life is unpredictable, it is said that no one knows tomorrow, if anything
should happen to the man or his source of income or his finances and the wife
has no source of income, how will the family’s needs be met? Who will carry on
with the responsibilities of the home?
4.
To make good use
of her skill; hey, after years in school, from primary to secondary,
university, even to masters and Ph.D level, she must have acquired some skills
and knowledge that should be put into productive use. Dear lady find a way to
make good use of your skill.
5.
To reduce over
dependence on the man; instead of constantly begging the husband for money for
hair, inner wears, makeup, sanitary pads, etc. the wife can be interdependent,
yes, he has to give the wife something then she complements it, not to depend
solely on the man or yourself. Be interdependent.
6.
To model the
children; if mom works and earns some money, the kids will learn that hard work
is real and it pays. The son learns that women are not weak and can work as
hard as men, while the daughter learns to believe in herself as a woman.
7.
A wife is more
than a wife and a mother. There is more to being a woman than just being a
housewife and a mom. A wife and a mother can a also be a successful business woman,
a career woman, a social activist, a public figure etc. don’t just be a wife
and mother, there is more you can be and do.
8.
To be
productive; if all a wife does and talks about and discusses with her husband
is just about the kids and the family, she may start sounding boring. She has
to be productive and bring up engaging conversations with the husband. Put your
brain to work.
I loved my housewife job, in fact I miss, but not as much as I love going out in the morning and coming back in the
evening. If you can, have more than one source of income, it cannot kill; more money
does not and cannot kill. If you don’t need it, some people do, give it out, or
contact me for my account details, I need it.
To me, working or doing
something, anything at all, to earn money is not just all about making money, there is more to
it. At least you meet people on daily basis, you grow your tentacles, grow
socially and otherwise.
THERE IS NO SHAME IN BUSINESS, AS A MATTER OF FACT, THERE IS DIGNITY IN LABOR.
THERE IS NO SHAME IN BUSINESS, AS A MATTER OF FACT, THERE IS DIGNITY IN LABOR.
TILL I COME YOUR WAY AGAIN.............
STAY HAPPY ALWAYS.
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