3 THINGS I PROMISED MY HUSBAND THIS YEAR!
3 things I promised my
husband this year.
It’s a new year, thank God
for the past years, it can only be Him.
Yes, New Year is always
welcomed with joy, happiness and high hopes. Coupled with all these is also new
year resolutions, every year we all make resolutions, to do this or that, not
to do this or that , to stop this or that bla bla bla bla.
Sometimes some of these New
Year resolutions we struggle to keep till half of the year, some we don’t even
keep at all, some we keep throughout the year. On the 31st night, I was
with my husband lying on the bed, gisting about the past years, how far we have
come, and how the coming year will be.
I sha told him to confess
everything he did in the past year that is not good; he only asked me what I want
to hear.
I told him what I want to
happen to me this New Year, a beautiful, fair, hairy, cute baby girl to just
fall on me, without me being pregnant or anything. If wishes were horses.
So back to my topic, 3 things I promised my husband this new year.
To stop having mood swing;
my mood can swing eeeeee, one single thought is enough to just give me mood
swing, and the man will be wondering “what did I do or say to this woman now to
have made her angry”. Even while making love, and I remember one thing he said or did that I do not like maybe last week or month, my mood will just change, and we
have to stop, talk and then continue. I dey tire for myself sometimes. The worst part is that my mood does not
swing from being angry to being happy, it is always swinging from
laughing to anger. Even my kids notices when my mood has changed and they will all disappear from me. Then this year I promised him to stop that, to actually stop
remembering things that has passed and always enjoy the moment. Like he will always put it.
To stop arguing with him;
nobody, (or let me say me) likes defeat. My husband too does not accept defeat,
even when he knows I know that thing more than him, he will always want to use
age and experience to win the argument. There is no day we don’t ask Google to
help us settle our arguments. So this year I have promised him to stop arguing
with him, even when he tells me that A is not for apple again, I will believe him.
I have promised him to believe and trust him hook line and sinker. Though in so
many of the arguments he has enough facts and points to buttress his argument,
which I don’t have, but I won’t just allow him win the argument, haba now.
I promise to always allow
him win all the arguments we will encounter this year. No sir cause problems
but yes sir brings peace.
To love him more this year; not like I stopped loving him or that I will ever stop loving him, but this year I promised him not to do anything or say anything that will make him ask me 'baby you don't love me again". This year I promised him to express my love to him in any way I can and not just say I love you.
Yes I have made my New Year
resolutions to my husband but not without a price tag, he has some conditions
to meet to help me fulfill my promises. If my conditions are met, I will fulfill my promises, God being my helper.
SO HELP ME GOD.
What are your New Year
promises to your husband?
Do you think my New Year
promises are possible?
Drop your comments in the
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