10+1 REASONS WHY YOU DONT DESERVE TO ANSWER MOTHER.....

                     DO YOU ALSO ANSWER MOTHER?

 We all celebrated mothering Sunday with family and friends. We danced, ate drank had fun and all. We understand what it means to carry a child for nine solid months and then labor room.

SO I ASK DO YOU DESERVE TO BE CALLED A MOTHER?

Being a mother is not just getting pregnant and having a baby or maybe breastfeeding a baby. Being a mother means mothering every child around you, whether yours biologically or not.

Not every woman is worthy of that name “MOTHER”.

• ·       You think you are doing your relation or your husband’s relation in the village a favor by taking their child as a help? Even if they needed your help, why don’t you mother that child as well?

• ·       You also complain of inequality and unfair treatment in the office and the world at large, yet that child you brought from the village cannot use the same spoon, plates and cups as your children. They don’t even eat the same kind of meal at the same time; talk more of eating on the same table. MADAM HABA. Your children eats jollof rice with meat while that girl gets watery okra soup without meat and eba as strong as stone.

• ·        We all thank God the days of slavery are gone, but where is that little girl you took as a help? That you whip everyday with your hands and tongue. Where does she sleep? On the cold floor?

• ·       Sunday mornings everyone looks very beautiful and gorgeously dressed, and that little girl dressed like a ragdoll, looking like a tadpole, struggling to carry your baby and hold the hand of the other one, with your baby bag on the other hand, while you walk majestically in front.

• ·       That girl wakes up at 4; 30am to clean the house and do house chores, dress your kids for school at 7; 00am, while she goes to school at 10; 00am. Sometimes she doesn’t even go at all.

• ·       Your own kids are God sent while that girl is a witch, she’s the reason why your kids fall sick often and maybe why hubby beats you. It was when she entered your home your husband changed.

• ·       When was the last time you bought her clothes and shoes? She wears torn rags as cloths and still your kids’ wears UK cloths. You don’t even care if she goes on bare foot. WELL……..

• ·       And her hair? You must not plait her hair, but please give #100 to  go the barbers shop and have her hair cut ,not instructing the security man to use razor and scrape her hair. YOU THINK AM.

                       HOW DARE YOU………

• ·       How dare you call yourself a mother and you have the guts to celebrate mothering Sunday when you don’t care about another woman’s child in your care?

• ·       How dare you answer mother when you are determined to destroy the kind that you laboriously and in pain created?

• ·        How dare you answer mother when another woman’s child goes to bed on an empty stomach, yet she helped you prepare fresh soup, but she doesn’t deserve the soup because you just made it. Its fresh soup.

·       Where is the Christ we profess that we love when we cannot love just a child that takes care of your kids?

And you the man of the house watching this child suffer and you say and do nothing, remember karma.

                     I CHALLENGE YOU WOMAN;

•  Treat that girl fairly and kindly, love her, appreciate her, train her like your own. You may be doing her a favor now, but who says she won’t do you a greater favor in future?

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND; REMEMBER KARMA.

   THAT GIRL IS A HUMAN BEING, SHE IS JUST A CHILD.

ALL I ASK IS TREAT THAT GIRL WELL; SHE IS ANOTHER WOMAN’S NINE MOTHS AND HOURS OF LABOR. SHE DESERVES TO BE LOVED.

YOU CAN MAKE AMENDS NOW, IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO DO THE RIGHT THING.

 

Do you think some of these girls deserve the kind of treatment being meted out to them? Please kindly spare one minute and share your thoughts in the comment box.

  
Share with everybody you care about to remind them of KARMA, and help them retrace their steps.
SHARE YOU MAY BE SAVING THE LIFE AND FUTURE OF THAT LITTLE GIRL.

TILL I BEEP YOU AGAIN……

STAY HAPPY ALWAYS………