8 FACTS EVERY MOM OF BOY(S) SHOULD KNOW........
Raising boys has been fun and very challenging, thank God I
have both sexes and can have a say about how it feels to raise any.
My boys five years and three years have taught me some LIFE LESSONS..
There are things that are boyish; there are things boys do that you cannot take away from them, I may not have know this facts about boys until I had them. It is my earnest prayer that every woman raises both sexes and as such know what it feels like to raise both sexes.
1.
Boys
shout; sometimes I wonder if it is just normal shouting or that they want to
grow their Adams apple, but my boys can shout.
Even to call mommy, they will shout it, to say they want something, they
will shout, I have even joined them, I shout back their names when they shout
mommy, I am not deaf that I won’t hear them call, they just prefer to shout.
2.
Most
boys are boyish; like my boys, my five year old especially, anything pink,
purple or red is not for him, and he cannot use it, even if it is a drinking
cup. If you want him not to disturb you about something again, just tell him
that thing is for girls, he will not come near that thing again, when it comes
to play before he plays with his sister, he will ask you first, if that type of
play is for girls or boys. I don’t know where he learned boy’s things or boys
play from, but he is just a boyish boy.
3.
Boys
can be rough; hey, they can be rough as in very rough, I always listen for cry
or wait for report anytime they are playing.
They play damn too rough. It has not been easy controlling them or
trying to stop them. My last boy is a professional in hitting his head on the
wall or floor, every part of his head has been hit on the wall/floor, sometimes
I wonder if he does not see well or just playing. from pillow fights, wrestling, boxing, superman game etc. I heard it is their age that they will
outgrow it, I can’t wait for them to outgrow it. If you know how to stop boys
from rough and too much play please I need your help.
4.
Have
your hospital card handy; some of their plays land them in the clinic, so you
will yourself a favor by having their hospital cards handy. My friend was
called back from work sometime, that her son had a fall and broke his arm and
has been rushed to the hospital. She was lucky the hospital card was in her
purse, she went straight to the hospital and saved herself some time looking
for the card or the stress of buying a new one. You never can tell where you
will be called out from, always have your hospital card handy, I am not praying
for an accident, but you can never tell.
5.
Everything/anything
is a weapon; I learned this the day my older son almost choked his younger
brother with a pair of sock, just a pair of sock. The television remote
control, pencil, spoon, even their cloths, everything around them is a potential weapon. So I
don’t let things lay around the house like that.
6.
Boy’s
cloths are not nice; buying cloths for my daughter makes me happy more than
buying for the boys. All you see for the boys is shirt, short, trouser, nothing
more. But for girls you see colorful, beautiful cloths, and you will be happy
you did some shopping. Even their foot wears, it is not more than snickers, loafers or sandals.
7.
Ask
your dad. Some questions are not meant for me, they are meant for daddy, those
questions I direct back to daddy. Questions like, mommy why is daddy bigger
than you. You may want to see FUNNY QUESTIONS KIDS ASK
8.
You
are not just raising your son, you are raising someone’s husband and someone’s
father, raise him well. Raise that boy, that your son to be the kind of husband
you would love your daughter to marry. Raise him to be the best father one can
ever have.
Don’t wait till your daughter in law starts complaining
before you realize you didn’t raise him well. We need NEW GENERATION OF HUSBANDS.
9.
Their
toilet always smells of wee; I don’t know why these boys will not hold their
penis while peeing, they will use their wee to design the toilet and this
leaves everywhere smelly. For lazy bones like me, this part is very difficult except
you have a help at home. To stop their toilet from smelling of wee all the time
I had to mop the toilet morning and night, sometimes thrice a day. One day I told
my younger son to pee outside, he finished peeing and called the brother to
come and see what he wrote with his wee on the floor, it was then I realized that
they pee on the toilet floor intentionally, so we introduced another measure to
checkmate smelly toilet and then it stopped.
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I think it is more hard work, challenging and fun at the same time raising boys, or what do you think? I really love to hear from you, let me know if I'm alone on this one or it is just my laziness disturbing me.
Do you have more facts to share with me about raising boys? Please I need to know more to help me raise my boys well for my future daughters in-law.
TILL I COME YOUR WAY AGAIN....STAT HAPPY ALWAYS...
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